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LOVE CAME DOWN ✝






Good Day my Beautiful Readers. 

So going through this week before the Remembrance if the Crucifixion of Jesus its been a week were Many lessons were taught. 

Before I go any deeper, THIS is MY view and Real Reason I Celebrate Easter. Yes I love all the Easter Eggs, Family Time and Yummy food it brings with it. But I love God More. And In this post I will tell you why. 

This is a post about Love! I was writing down ideas, Scriptures and Plans for this post for the past two weeks but the Ultimate Lesson I learned was LOVE, in LOVE lies all the other things surrounded with the moment Jesus gave his life for me. 

It shows sacrifice, Not just For him to die on the Cross for our sins, But for GOD to sacrifice his only son to save us. It showed a LOVE that cannot be comprehended, it shows that no matter what we go through that was worse because we genuinely do not like to give of ourselves to others let alone the world. 

It taught me that no matter what I face or how I face it that in the Beginning and In the End God was with me the whole time and any mistakes I made he forgave FOREVER never to be mentioned again. This is the power that these days hold, the power of forgiveness, grace, mercy and LOVE. 



I could go on and on about every single story written on the Day Jesus gave his life, its stories you've heard or read before. So I am going to share what It means for someone like me, its a season Where I look at my life and think " God am I even worthy of you" and he Reminds me that I always have been, Because in my sin his hand is over me because Jesus sits in the right hand of his father and Prays for me. TO ensure that I someone who gives not as much as I should still is Worthy. Any doubts, emotions, mistakes, words said or things done in your life that make me feel far away from God do not anymore. Because I learned the extent of his LOVE never to take Advantage of it ever again or at least try my best not to. 


EVERYDAY we see the Glory of God if and When we seek him, BUT at THE CROSS we saw his heart, in the flesh for us, giving up the one thing that he had, for our sins. So that one day we may Meet with him. Never forget the emphasis of this Sacrifice because yes Jesus DIED but he ROSE ON THE THIRD DAY, and now we ARE FREE! 
He didn't do it because someone said so he did it because he wanted us in eternal life with him and Our father, I mean how on earth can that not be a reason to live and serve God with all you've got. 

LOVE WINS!!!!! 



We are not perfect and God does not expect us to be, all he wants is for us to come to him, in his presence to worship and love him. 

As I said in the beginning of the year that it was A goal for me to grow Closer to GOD, to have him in every single part of my life, and SO far I feel like I have not missed a moment with him because he is all I want, my whole life has changed for the better, the blessings flow down and I see his MERCY AND GRACE in event he smallest things of my life. 

This Season I chose to Remember what an Incredible Sacrifice God made for me because he loves me + all the Easter eggs I can Consume because I fasted for 3 Days. (KIDDING) 

HAPPY EASTER MY LOVELY FRIENDS. 
I pray The Love of God will surround you and your family. 

ALL MY LOVE 
Keesha Mc Pherson of TakkiesandTulips  







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LIPPIE INS AND OUTS 💄



GOOD DAY ALL MY WONDERFUL READERS 🙋

Okay okay, let me catch my breath cause this blog post got me all kinds of excited. 
Just as a PSA I have changed the posting date this week because I have made two posts to go out. Today is my Long awaited LIPPIE post and by the end of the week I have a Easter post coming up. 😊

WHAT TO EXPECT- 
Loads of Visuals, information, great buys and hopefully some Laughter. So without any further a due, LETS GET TO IT!

First before even thinking of Liptsick, Lipgloss or Lip Balm Application you first need a well prepped lip, soft, smooth and you know the other thing HAHA.

A. I have a few DIY Lip scrub Recipes and I fave listed my two favourite down below and I will describe each of their benefits Below. 

1.


Above I have made the entire recipe out for you including instructions for usage. 
The BENEFITS of this coffee lip scrub is it will lighten dark lips, its a defoliating agent and is rich in anti-oxidants also the coffee granules help remove the dead skin on your lips and allow for a smooth surface. The honey is rich in anti-oxidants as well and has moisturizing and soothing benefits. The Olive oil creates a protective barrier. In the end your lips will look a little bit more plump and all the dead skin will be removed. 

2. 

This is my easy peasy 2 Ingredient Lip Scrub with many alteration options for someone who might not want their lip scrub so simple, or maybe wants a different scent or texture added as well. 
Its simple just Sugar and Vaseline ( Petroleum Jelly) if you will. 
The sugar is much more gentle than salt, which in turn is better to use on your skin as your lips are more sensitive. the vaseline is the moisturizing agent, easy to use, has amazing skin Benefits and is extremely affordable. I had attached a few extra options in the recipe because not everyone will be fond of using the same ingredients, I've also mentioned a bunch of Additions that you can make to the scrub because its so simple. 

B. Lip-Ice, Lip Balm, Chapstick this is where the moisture comes to give you life. 

Below in my next visual I created a Drugstore list for really great lip balms, that I myself use everyday, they have great benefits and are so affordable. 



So I made this list from my Favourite to my not so Favourite. 
My lip balm experience was genuinely one for the books I'm telling you, first of all US South Africans Call it Lip Ice and I dig this. 
Second, You know when you're a kid and eating it was more fun that wearing it? YES this was me. I do not recommend making lip balm a food choice but I mean, I aint gonna judge. HAHA
Third, when one uses pearl lip balm, or lip balm too light or even to dark for your skin tone and it was just a hot mess? Yep I have lived it all, then I learned that It was not about the brand but the ingredients. Its what you want your lips to feel and look like which in turn meant making better lip balm decisions that don't make you feel like you've wasted your money and just made a mess of your smile.
  • I started looking for lip balms that had all natural ingredients and Benefited me according to my current needs.
  • My Dexe lip balm is my every day without fail I use it lip balm, It keeps my lips moisturized and I only have to reapply about 3 times during my entire day. 
  • Soft lips I use when my lips are for some reason extremely chapped and need some soothing lip balm that will penetrate the dryness and bring them back to life and THEY SMELL THE BEST. 
  • My Dischem Lip Therapy I usually use as a gloss more than a balm, But the benefits will have you shining for days. Just make sure its closed well or your whole life will be drowned in it.
  • Labello was one f those fancy nancy Lip balms, but the Hydro Care, IT SAVES WINTER LIPS. 
  • Last but not least my lip butter, shame I gave this one a fair chance but it just gets so grainy after a while and the scent can throw one off cause its so strong. 

I always go for clear lip balms because they agree best with my skin tone and what I want naturally out of  a balm, There are many amazing pigmented balms that do not stain, If you want I will Make a separate post on it, Just comment on this post if so. 
All these LIP BALMS are currently available at Dis-Chem pharmacies and The prices are listed in the visual. 

C. Now we get to the good stuff- LIPSTICK 


For the Past 3 or so months I have been Loving my two new lippies. 
  1. PALLADIO LIPSTICK IN SMOKEY ROSE- R59.00
  2. ESSENCE MATT MATT LIPGLOSS IN 09 AMERICAN GIRL R69.00

The Palladio Lipstick is so creamy, its slides on like silk, it leaves your lips feeling like they don't even have lipstick on. It really becomes one with your skin and the pigmentation is amazing. I usually wear this as an everyday Lipstick because its very floral and girly. Easy to pull off with nearly any simple makeup look. Its so feminine and it smells amazing. (YES I SMELLED IT) 

The Essence Matt Matt Lipgloss, okay so first I was Skeptical, like the whole point of Gloss is HI-Shine all the time and BAM, MATT LIPGLOSS!!!!!!! 
But to my surprise the product really exceeded my expectations, First of all it smelled lovely,the consistency was a tad bit grainy but then smoothed out, the pigmentation was bananas and if I must say so myself the Applicator allows that it goes on smooth with no rigid edges of any sort.This made me so happy because I got such a dark Shade I really didn't want to be disappointed. AND I was not, It creates such a bold, dangerous,sleek look. You can wear this bold look with a bold eye, contour the WORKS and then you can take a simple look and make it dramatic. 


Below I'm going to show you two Pictures with me wearing the Palladio Lipstick and the Essence Lipgloss.
Then I used them together and boy or boy, Its my new favourite lipstick look.

Wearing the Palladio Lipsick in the Shade Smokey Rose.

Wearing the Essence MATT MATT Lipgloss in the shade 09 American GIRL. MY FAVE. 💄

Me wearing the Smokey Rose shade underneath 09 American Girl, It looks like the perfect dark and floral match and almost accents off the eye shadow I wore. I just can't get over how Amazing they looked together.

So Beautiful, no matter what lip product you wear or how you wear it, Make sure you take better care of your lips because just like skin care or body care, they play a big part. And we tend to really neglect them at times, I know I did. 

I hope this post was a little helpful, and remember you are beautiful without all the add-ons. 
You embody beauty just by existing. 



ALL MY LOVE
Keesha Mcpherson of TakkiesandTulips













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6 EVERYDAY STRESS RELIEF TIPS 🍃



GOOD DAY TO ALL MY BEAUTIFUL READERS ✿

So its only MARCH and YUP we got stress for DAYS!! 
I'm no stranger to stress and over the past 3 years I created ways in which i deal now much better with stress, because it can really affect our lives if we don't. 
Before we get into the good stuff of how to relieve your stress, lets mention some stresses and their symptoms. 

LIFE CHANGES-

  • The death of a loved one
  • Loss of a job / Starting a New job
  • Increase in financial obligations
  • New Relationship 
  • Getting married
  • Moving to a new home 
  • Chronic illness or injury
  • Emotional problems (depression, anxiety, anger, grief, guilt, low self-esteem) regarding many different parts of your life, family, friendships, relationships and careers. 
  • The death of a loved one

WORK STRESS- 
  • Starting a new project 
  • Presenting a speech 
  • Introducing new products 
  • Deadlines 
SYMPTOMS OF STRESS-Stress is dangerous and for me extremely irritating, because the effects are sometimes subtle and many a times overwhelming they can present as 


And these are just to mention a few.


  • Headaches 
  • Muscle/ Joint Pain 
  • Insomnia 
  • Irritability 
  • Tummy Aches 
So basically we have so many things that change our lives and affect us mentally, emotionally and physically. Its up to us to make sure that we take care of our mental states, spiritual states, physical bodies and our emotions. 

BELOW I have 6 ways that Relieve my stress and I'm about to share them with you. 


  1. LISTEN TO MUSIC- My music of choice is always Worship music, I have a playlist between Bethel, Hillsong, Planet Shakers, Hillsong Y&F and Kari Jobe just to list some favourites. It genuinely gives me a lot of peace and gives me time to process the stress I am feeling, I lay on my bed for as long as I need to with my Music turned all the way up and I begin to feel calm.So any music that can get you out of your funk and into your peace is best for you, sometimes we just need time to re-group our thoughts with some lovely tunes and we instantly feel revilatized. 
  2. WRITING- Writing is my main source of any kind of Outlet. I write stories, poems, songs which ever fits my mood at the time. I am actually most creative when it looks like my mind is Chaos, almost like the right kind of chaos because my stories are so full of life and creative ideas and as soon as I am done with a piece I feel so much more relaxed and towards myself again. Write about even how you feeling just getting it out is what will help you let go. 
  3. CLEANING/ ORGANISING- Haha yes this is an usual one, but has anyone ever tried this. When I'm in a bad head space I hate communicating, so find something physical that I can do to lower my stress levels so I clean, I spring clean my room top to bottom and I reorganize my cupboards. I even sometimes with the help of my Dad move around my furniture, If I feel I want my space to look different. Also when my space is clean and reorganized Its such an accomplishing feeling and helps so much with stress. 
  4. IN DOOR SPA DAY- This one is my Absolute favourite, I cannot even tell you how much, I will do my nails a Mani and A Pedi, I will do a facial or Scrub of some kind (Depending on my skins needs at the moment in question). I will wash and style my hair, I will do my eyebrows if they need to be done. Its one big pamper party for me, because its a couple hours I get to focus on myself, my appearance and body care is so important. The benefits is my skin looks and feels like a MILLION BUCKS and I smell like i walked out of a lavender farm so i mean, who wont feel better after that? 
  5. READ A BOOK- So yes, I not Ashamed I am a book hoarder, re-reader and story junkie. GUYS I mean if you read a book and don't travel with it, did you even read it? I love the stories because I read them either as if 'm living the Story or playing it out in my head like a movie series or movie franchise. Books can add so much sass into your life, teach you new words and sayings, It shows how the writers think and progress if you're reading a book series. I go where the story goes, don't get me wrong it can be one heck of an emotional roller coaster but I'm so inlove with the feeling and I will choose it any day. My favourite Authors are Karen Kingsbury, Beverly Lewis. 
  6. MOVIES/SERIES- I'm a sucker for a good crime series, I love anything from Criminal minds to 911 I love watching real stories depicted of people in the service helping others in the most dreadful situations and saving lives, and even the lives that couldn't be saved are always honoured somehow. And yes the action parts of them be my favourite, when I see bomb  actors and actresses in the fighting scenes and I get exhilarated. I love comedy for when I need a good laugh, sad movies when I need to cry and those Sci-fi movies that have the creepiest things in that make your skin crawl but are so worth the watch. Don't even get me started on chick flicks, girly series and Christian films. I basically go where my mood is and how baldy I feel I need to see something good or something exciting, its a few hours where you get out of your own head, sometimes and most of the time even learning some really good lessons in the process. 
FAVOURITES FROM MY STRESS RELIEVERS. 

  1. MUSIC- 
  • Born again and Endless Alleluia from Bethel (Cory Asbury) 
      4. IN DOOR SPA DAY- 
  • My apricot body scrub from Rooibos 
  • My foot care set from Avon (Lavender) 
  • My Shampoo and Conditioner from Garnier Ultimate Blends. 
      5. READING A BOOK- 

  • Karen Kingsbury- Bailey flanigan Series. 
  • Beverly Lewis- Love Letters. 
      6. SERIES AND MOVIES- 
  • 911 
  • Chicago PD, FIRE, MED 
  • Criminal Minds
  • Gossip Girl 
  • If I Stay 
  • Beauty and The Beast 
  • This list will not end if I go on, but I mentioned a few favourites. 
So no matter what it is you are facing or experiencing. Take out some YOU TIME, find things that can calm you down even If its something small. It will really help you become more in tune with yourself and help you to start handling stress a little more better than usual. If you need to talk or any other tips I am here for you. I hope that the little ways I handle stress has or can benefit you today. 

LAST BUT NOT LEAST PRAY. Its so important that you communicate your stress or anxiety with God, because in the moments you don't want people around, you will need comfort and Only God can give you comfort beyond any mans ability. Prayer will help you release every single ounce of stress you have and have you feeling like you just got renewed. 💟



All My Love 


Keesha Mcpherson of TakkiesandTulips 

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